Hi Everyone,

I know our goal in this group is to get out there and meet people and do things rather than sit behind our computers and socialize that way. However, I thought this might be a fitting conversation for this type of site.

Let's try to take turns between enhancers and killers.

Enhancer: I think it's great when I see someone be polite and kind to waitstaff, clerks, ticket-takers, etc., etc. It always immediately improves my opinion of them, even if I already had a positive opinion.

I'm going to do a dating sandwich. 2 positives sandwiching a negativer.

Enhancer: Him asking questions to bring me out as well as me asking him questions...equally. Not one-sided

Killer: Creepily long eye contact.

Enhancer: Good Oral and physical hygiene.

Oh oh!!! I just thought of another one. If he likes to camp and even better likes to backpack to remote areas to camp where there is no plumbing and no people around. Sleeping under the stars. Yes, that's a plus.

Enahancer - good conversationalist, including not interrupting when someone else is talking and not monopolizing the conversation.